WINNERS VERSUS LOSERS

The winner is always part of the answer;

The loser is always part of the problem.

The winner always has a program;

The loser always has an excuse.

The winner says “Let me do it for you”;

The loser says “That is not my job”

The winner sees an answer for every problem;

The loser sees a problem for every answer.

The winner says “It may be difficult but it is possible”;

The loser says “It may be possible but it is too difficult”.

When a winner makes a mistake, he says “I was wrong”;

When a loser makes a mistake, he says, “It wasn’t my fault”

A winner makes commitments;

A loser makes promises.

Winners have dreams

Losers have schemes.

Winners say, “I must do something”;

Losers say, “Something must be done”

Winners are part of the team;

Loses are apart from the team.

Winners see the gain;

Losers see the pain.

Winners see possibilities;

Losers see problems.

Winners believe in win-win;

Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

Winners see the potential;

Losers see the past.

Winners are like a thermostat;

Losers are like thermometers

Winners choose what they say;

Losers say what they choose.

Winners use hard arguments but soft words;

Losers use soft arguments but  hard words.

Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;

Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

Winners follow the philosophy of empathy, “ Don’t do to others what you would not want them to do to you”;

Losers follow the philosophy , “Do it to others before they do it you”

Winners make it happen;

Losers let it happen.

Winners plan and prepare to win

The key word is preparation.

Wheelchair user for a day

Wheelchair user for a day

I love ideas like this. We've all heard the phrase, "Try living a day in my shoes." I came across this blog of a student who had to do just that and navigate her campus in a wheelchair.

Everyone in my class has an assignment: spend one day that we are on campus in a wheelchair. Most days we are only in two buildings that are practically next to one another, so it hasn't been a big deal. Today I had to go to another part of campus to hear a presentation (from a motivational speaker who speaks about being in a wheelchair) and it was challenging. On my way over a classmate offered to push me and I was so grateful because the sidewalk was so uneven and sloped in all different directions. Walking on it I would never have noticed, but being in a wheelchair I felt everything.

When I got in to class I met the speaker at the door who must have known immediately that I was doing an assignment of being in a wheelchair for a day and he asked me about what I had experienced so far. I told him frankly I was terrified because I was not in control of the chair all the time and the one I was in had a tendency to slope to one side so I could never really steer straight. He assured me this is not typical and more so the crummy chair I was using. He had great insights on what it's like for someone to suddenly be healthy and then have a spinal cord injury that leaves you paralyzed. He talked on the wheelchair being a mobility aid and that he is not hindered by his disability, but rather the environment. I was so moved by his talk that I decided to wheel myself back to my classroom.

Posted by JLO

Weblog = Expose your self..

Hi Everybody!
One of my dear friends, A girl form space invited me to a weblog game and she want me to expose me more.. so here go's


The worst event in my life: 
Day i got to know that i will not walk again..
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The best event in my life:
i think its the day the friend who i fell in love told me she loves me too...
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The worst decision in my life: 

trying to rush home with ma bike on the day i met with my accident..
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The biggest regret in my life: 
letting go something i loved so badly..
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The most effective person in my life: 
Jesus.. coz i learn more about life and the meaning of how to live it and how to care others from his teachings.. 

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Do you believe in miracle? 
Yes.. always.. i'm a big believer in them.. coz i have receive so many thing in my life which are like miracles to me..  miracles what make ppl have hope.. 
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My wish: 
hmm My wish would be to walk again so then i can make others wishes come true..  
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Am I lucky person? 
Oh yes.. i notice that when i saw some other disabled ppl and notice what they have and i dont have.. but i do feel sometimes that i'm also unlucky of what happen to me when all things looked so great in my life before my accident... ------------------------------------------------------------------
My idea about these words:
      Love: Greatest feeling any human can feel and greatest pain they can experience
      Treachery: something can hurt more than physical
      Mendacity: something i hate and hate it more when it done by ppl who i trust..
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I do not like whom? 
liars. specially the friends who i'm dear to them
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Have I ever broken any body’s heart? 
one.. and unknowingly i think i have done few more.. 
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Why this name for my weblog? 
its says it all.. something for someone and only who ever read it will be that someone.. 
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Which of my friends in web space (virtual world) do I like the best? 
there was one.. but no more.. now only few more dear to me and if i ask to pick one as all are equal to me now..... ------------------------------------------------------------------ 
A definition of my life: 
love ur neighbor as your self.. 
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These words remind me what?
      Peach: A best friend i had.. 
      Tear: painful experience than joy.. 
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My eye’s color: Bk brown
My favorite color: Blue... 
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Status of answering my phone: 
hmmm most times i hate when it rings.. hehehehe except for a call from a friend.. 

ok guys.. who ever read this make sure do the same.. 

like to point out a theory of Sir Isaac Newton "every action there is an equal and opposite reaction " so keep that reaction going... Expose ur self to others and don't be afraid to do it as other will get to know you more.. but keep ur privet things secrets... ;-) 

cheers!!!  

How many wishes do we have??

Few days back one of my FB friends status had written something very meaningful & made me think it is so relevant to me too. It said "everyone has many wishes, but cancer patients has only one wish, that’s to be cured"..

It really made sense as most people will not know the real feeling of their life ending days or it getting short or knowing that they will die in few months. but they do know they get old and then there will be a day for them to say good bye to this world. So coz of that their wishes will be more based on be more rich earthly things or be better than another etc until they reach their dying days.

What would happen if god let them know the age that every human gonna live, like having a expiry date on their body or anyway of saying how long he or she will live. I’m sure then this would be better place than this and they will care for each other more than now as they know when they will lose their loved once or friends around them and try to appreciate them more.. for example as we try to use the food that we buy from supermarkets before it get expired. Maybe it would be not work as it say. but I’m sure most will try..

Everyone would love to live longer or have one extra day and I guess all the ppl who are suffering from all these incurable sickness wish for more time and disabled peoples also would be having similar wishes as any cancer patient wishing for cure or reverse the time to the day all it happen, so they can change the past for a better present. It’s a very kind and humble wish I guess, only person who will understand how much its mean to them who have experienced something like that..

So when you wish next time make wish something useful and meaningful as these. coz one day we will all leave all the earthly things coz when the time comes you will have leave all these wishes came true to others… and then it will be only count all the heavenly things you earn in heaven..

Thanks for reading and have a great day... don't forget to comment your own opinion below.. gob bless you all..

Thinking of me???

sometimes when I'm all alone

wondering what you do all alone

if your thinking of me

then I wish you was close to be

sometimes when I'm feeling sad

wondering if you too feeling the same bad

if you were thinking of me

then I wish I was next to be

sometimes when I'm in my dreams

wondering if you feel the same screens

if you were think of of me

then I wish our friendship always be

Why we want best friends? do we?

Sometimes it hard to live with out a friend in your life even if ur living in a big family. Coz you need a outside to be open when ur not comfortable saying it to your family. But sometimes you have your own family who take part as your friend. But does it work?

Have been with many friends in my life. moment you give more room to one special friend as your best friend in ur life, you expect more from them. is it right to do expect more out of them when ur been more to them and honest? or is it wrong to ask it?

I think one of the biggest problem of losing friendship is not been honest and lying. Sometimes ppl and so called friends lie so that they may not want to hurt that persons feelings or maybe they want to be gentle on them so they might not be able to handle the truth. But what if the person who they lie suspect their lying and find out they lie more to cover that lie? is it ok to lie like that and what if this person who lie is ur best friend? 

Its so strange why friends do this when they where highly appreciate as a best friend out of all. something like this happen recently in my life and it did hurt me more than made me angry.. So what shell I do? Shell I forgive this friend coz that person was my best friend or shell delete all their memories and forget them. ??

There is a saying that person who hurt you more will remain more in ur mind than ur enemies.. Most ppl would chose the second option of delete them from there life or maybe will take revenge by hurting them back.. But for me I would say love them and forgive them as we all do mistakes. But I don’t think I can have that person as my best friend as trust is broken more than the friendship and it will only make me expect more as friend from them.

So I think having a best friend is a great blessing and a great risk if you’re a true friend. Want all the bloggers to leave comments on this as I would love to hear from them..