Why we want best friends? do we?

Sometimes it hard to live with out a friend in your life even if ur living in a big family. Coz you need a outside to be open when ur not comfortable saying it to your family. But sometimes you have your own family who take part as your friend. But does it work?

Have been with many friends in my life. moment you give more room to one special friend as your best friend in ur life, you expect more from them. is it right to do expect more out of them when ur been more to them and honest? or is it wrong to ask it?

I think one of the biggest problem of losing friendship is not been honest and lying. Sometimes ppl and so called friends lie so that they may not want to hurt that persons feelings or maybe they want to be gentle on them so they might not be able to handle the truth. But what if the person who they lie suspect their lying and find out they lie more to cover that lie? is it ok to lie like that and what if this person who lie is ur best friend? 

Its so strange why friends do this when they where highly appreciate as a best friend out of all. something like this happen recently in my life and it did hurt me more than made me angry.. So what shell I do? Shell I forgive this friend coz that person was my best friend or shell delete all their memories and forget them. ??

There is a saying that person who hurt you more will remain more in ur mind than ur enemies.. Most ppl would chose the second option of delete them from there life or maybe will take revenge by hurting them back.. But for me I would say love them and forgive them as we all do mistakes. But I don’t think I can have that person as my best friend as trust is broken more than the friendship and it will only make me expect more as friend from them.

So I think having a best friend is a great blessing and a great risk if you’re a true friend. Want all the bloggers to leave comments on this as I would love to hear from them..