WINNERS VERSUS LOSERS

The winner is always part of the answer;

The loser is always part of the problem.

The winner always has a program;

The loser always has an excuse.

The winner says “Let me do it for you”;

The loser says “That is not my job”

The winner sees an answer for every problem;

The loser sees a problem for every answer.

The winner says “It may be difficult but it is possible”;

The loser says “It may be possible but it is too difficult”.

When a winner makes a mistake, he says “I was wrong”;

When a loser makes a mistake, he says, “It wasn’t my fault”

A winner makes commitments;

A loser makes promises.

Winners have dreams

Losers have schemes.

Winners say, “I must do something”;

Losers say, “Something must be done”

Winners are part of the team;

Loses are apart from the team.

Winners see the gain;

Losers see the pain.

Winners see possibilities;

Losers see problems.

Winners believe in win-win;

Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

Winners see the potential;

Losers see the past.

Winners are like a thermostat;

Losers are like thermometers

Winners choose what they say;

Losers say what they choose.

Winners use hard arguments but soft words;

Losers use soft arguments but  hard words.

Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;

Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

Winners follow the philosophy of empathy, “ Don’t do to others what you would not want them to do to you”;

Losers follow the philosophy , “Do it to others before they do it you”

Winners make it happen;

Losers let it happen.

Winners plan and prepare to win

The key word is preparation.